Does Mastubation have any side effects on health of men? - A Christian View
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Yes. To learn about them read my many answers to questions on this subject. How old is the one doing it and what do they tend to think about while doing it. There are health efects from masturbation and there are social and psychological effects from all sexual activity especially that which happens when the person is too young to be doing it. Tohave sex the body and the brain need to mature to a point of ability to process it. That often happens best when the first sexual activity in a personis a wet dream. It is always best to let nature take its course which means someone will have plenty of wet dreams before masturbating in many cases.
Sex takes place mostly in the mind and the mind is a complex thing. Sexual experiences and ideas floating around in young heads not ready to deal with the emotional and exotic parts of sex can harm that person with anti social traits for life.
On the other hand masturbation is sort of common in many Western cultures and therefore is thought by some there to be a universal truth (which it is not) some perosns who have no food to eat have no way to participate in masturbation or similar things. Some have very strong cultural or religions understndings about this. Playing with one self has awhole diferent meaning if you are a teen and live in a village whre no one wears any clothes. We know because we have known persons who grew up in such cultures and have been able later on in life to ask them about this. What do you think Cannables think about penises and masturbation? THey have eaten some? And that puts a whole new light on the subject doesn't it? Most of the kinseian reports about sex were wrong a slanted infavor of permiscus behaivor. They had an agenda whcih was not to make sex more free and open it was to push one style of sex lifes on an unsuspecting public.
Fell free to ask us any questions in this regard. God or nature (if you hate the idea of GOd) has created for humans a two person system where it is to be two persons having sex exclusively with each other and only each other for life. The thoughts and ideas that travel in minds that masturbate often turn sex in a different direction which is dangerous for them and for our culture.
Many who masturbate and are satisfied with that sexual experience never seek to marry or have sex with opposite sex and their gene pool is not passed down to future generatinos this is harmful to us all. Others who have premarital sex get germs form foreign family lines that latter get passed to their future mates and to their children. The more germs and micro organisms you pass down to your children and every thing youget from each sex partner gets in you permenantly and passed odw to all your descendents forevermore.
So thoise who masturbate so they remain abstinent are doign a wise thing except they remove from them selves the idea of seeking to find that special mate that God prepared for them, just for them. To beleive this you first must beleive ther is a GOd and that HE actually knows you exist and is in favor of you enjoying life in a safe way. That is why GOd prefers us to be abstinant tilllmarriage and then monogamous. It slows down the spread of disease which casues missery and death. God likes us each to live a long happymeanigful life. Sexual desire is best used as a motivation to work hard and grow up well and prepare one self to be a great father or mother and spouse. THese are worthwhile uses of time. Not playing with one self beyond some exploration and learning about ones anatomy etcetera. If one is masturbating as a habit that is not healthy for them.. Often they use pornography and that means they are looking at someone elses wife or husband and that is not good. This sets up expectations that they may never be able to satisfy. To think that having anyone else touch your penis than your wife to give you sexual pleasure and to set up that desire as the one you wish to attain is the healthies and safest thing to do especialy becaeu then when one finds a wife and copulates wioth her they will be satisfied. TO desire a girl some girl is to set one up so that once they find that girl then they will be inthe habit of desiring a nother girl instead of being satisfied that they have found and have whAT they sought. This is satisfying. IF they really live that person and can surrender the use of their body to that other person for theri exclusive enjoyment that is a good and healthy and the most common appraoch to sex world wide. They should see only one other set of sex organs in their life, their mates. Then all this comparison business (about larger and smaller and best or worse) comes to an end. tHAT STUFF CREATES ALL SORTS OF PROBLEMS WITh self esteme etetera opps caps wer by mistake, notintentional )
Sex is suposed to be a private affair between two persons for life that is best for each person and for our society.
We require teens who are able to have sex to wait and learn to be in charge of their life and their sexuality before we condone their having sex. This is best doen by each person having one sex partner who they select for all the other reasons about life and getting along and beiong happy (other than having sex) that we select partners for. Then sex is an added benefit. The most compelling force in human life is the desire to copulate and to enjoy the experience. God created it to tell us somethign about hoiw much he really loves us each as an individual. THose who trust GOd ( or nature) on the idea that there is a special person for them are never disapointed if they focus on preparing themself to be the best partner to that person created for them. It makes the person be pro-active in life rather than re-active and as they prepare for their special partner God or nature brings them together with that person. How do we know this, we have seen it and it has been done thus for ages. All love songs and sonnets attest to this as do most Holy Writings and words of wisdom and sage.
First comes love,
then comes mariage
then comes a baby in the baby carriage.
MOst school chiuldren who have never had sex and know nothing about it seem to know this truth. What is wrong in our society that by the time they are teens they have forgotten this. we end up with many children either without lioveing and capable parents or murdered in their monthers womb. HOw sick that we should be a society that accepts the idea that mothers should be murderers. Not nutureres. That will not help continue the human race ( if ther eis not a god it si against nature to mis use sex. )
ON the otehr hand a gu y can get such a build up of seminal fluid and some guys would rather just make it come out than have it affect their bed clothes. It is very pleasurable to ejaculate and desireable. Looking at erect falic things is it seems desireable and atactive even to non homosexual individuals that is why tehr are so many falic like things in our culture and why had core porn is thought of being that which shows erect penises. SO osme guys kind of fall in love with their own manhood as a result of maturbatin as a habit. GOd created them and gave them a penis. they see sex as an evil or dirty thing. Ther is a difference between admitting that you do something and can hardly stop and then saying it is ok to do. It is not o.k. But it is comon in our culture and our wealthy place in the cosmos. We and they who do masturbate would be wise to love God and to appreaciate GOd for creating them and their ability to enjoy an orgasmand to to ask God to teach them His truth about life so they can understand it and try to follow it.
Dear God. thank you for creating me and giveing me my penis. Teach me your truth and help me to understand it. If there is a Messiah or any other truth you have, make it clear to me and help me so I will recieve it and accept what is true. I want to be in charge of my life and to be pleasing to you GOd if you even exist. If you do exist I ask you to help me know you and your truth and to find a comfort to my life. Forgive me for sins and let me believe the truth what ever it is. Amen.
There, that is a good universal prayer that anyone can pray and if ther is a GOd then that God has a responsibility to answer that prayer.
If you masturbate and are worried about it read my many answers about these topics and feel comnfortable about emailing us and asking specific questions about life. We will try to help you feel comfortable about yourself no matter how you feel about our ideas if you have different ones and strongly feel your wy we woudl enjoy a discussin we mght learn somethign fomr you and you from us. email@example.com we realize this is a serious issue for some. SOme for religious reasons others for personal reasons would ratehr not masturbate that do. We enjoy helping others in this way. God lives you and cares about you and you need to have good self esteme. We know that. And you need to find out what is the best thing for you so you can do it.
Hope this is helpful and we hope many who read this will email us for edification and encouragement. Amen.
Is Masturbation Normal?
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life. Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.
Is Masturbation Harmful?
In general, the medical community considers masturbation to be a natural and harmless expression of sexuality for both men and women. It does not cause any physical injury or harm to the body, and can be performed in moderation throughout a person's lifetime as a part of normal sexual behavior. Some cultures and religions oppose the use of masturbation or even label it as sinful. This can lead to guilt or shame about the behavior. Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.
its cheaper than dinner and a movie, and no awkward "morning after"
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